Creating Beauty in Your Life
Embracing Curiosity and Courage
In a world brimming with opportunities and endless possibilities, it’s bewildering to hear people say they are bored or lack creativity. At Onyx and Milk, we believe that boredom is merely a call to action, an invitation to explore the vast landscape of your interests and talents. Let's take a walk into the art of creating beauty in your life by embracing curiosity and courage.
The Myth of Boredom
When someone says they are bored, what they often mean is that they are unwilling to try something new. Fear of failure or concern about others' opinions can paralyze us, trapping us in a cycle of inactivity. It takes courage to be disliked and to live the life you want. A great book on this is called The Courage to be Disliked However, boredom is not a lack of activities but a lack of engagement with the world around us.
Embrace the Art of Trying
The solution to overcoming this inertia is simple yet profound: try new things in private and allow yourself to fail in silence. This approach provides a safe space to explore, make mistakes, and develop new skills without the pressure of public scrutiny. Here are a few ways to get started:
Take a Class:
Enroll in a local workshop or course. In-person classes, like those offered by Brooklyn Brainery @bkbrains where they provide hands-on experience and direct interaction with instructors and fellow learners. I have been going here for years, I just love it.
Online Learning:
If time or budget constraints are an issue, online platforms like Skillshare offer a plethora of courses on various subjects. These subscriptions can be a gateway to discovering new passions. I have done, the water color and currently diving into food photography and lighting.
YouTube Exploration:
For those who prefer a free option, YouTube is a treasure trove of tutorials and inspirational content. Countless creators share their expertise, allowing you to learn at your own pace.
Personal Journey: A Blooming Passion
As someone who embraces a neurodivergent perspective, I find my interests constantly evolving. Recently, I have been captivated by the art of flower arrangements. This new passion not only brings beauty into my life but also provides a therapeutic outlet for my creativity. Expect to see more floral designs on my Instagram feed as I immerse myself in this delightful new ADHD obsession.
The Power of Curiosity and Courage
Cultivating a life of beauty and fulfillment is not about having inherent talent but about being willing to explore and experiment. By trying new things and persevering through the initial awkward stages, you can uncover hidden talents and passions that bring joy and purpose to your life.
At Onyx and Milk, we encourage you to celebrate the beauty of intentional choices and the elegance of a well-crafted life. Whether it’s through learning a new skill, indulging in a creative pursuit, or simply allowing yourself the freedom to fail and try again, every step you take is a step towards a more fulfilled and vibrant existence.
Embrace your boundless curiosity and the courage to look beyond your comfort zone. Design your balance, live your happiness, and create beauty in every aspect of your life.
With Onyx and Milk, design your balance, live your happiness.