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Curiosity and Neurodivergence: The Superpower of an Open Mind

Curiosity is a force that compels us to explore, question, and create. It is the quiet whisper that asks "what if?" and the relentless drive that pushes humanity toward discovery. But curiosity is more than just an impulse—it is a way of thinking, of seeing the world in infinite possibilities. Interestingly, curiosity shares deep roots with neurodivergence,

Designing a Life of Purpose: A Reflection on the Wisdom of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
Designing a Life of Purpose: A Reflection on the Wisdom of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

“Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. taught us that “The quality, not the longevity, of one’s life is what is important.” His legacy reminds us to live with purpose, courage, and compassion every single day. Are you designing a life that aligns with your values and dreams? Discover how to live fully, embrace each moment, and leave a lasting impact. Click here to read more and start living a life of intention today.”

The Little Things That Make All the Difference
The Little Things That Make All the Difference

“Ever wondered how the smallest details can transform not just your outfit, but your entire outlook on life? In my latest blog post, I share how a simple pair of silver collar pins turned a casual Friday look into a statement of style and confidence. But it’s not just about fashion—it’s about how tiny, thoughtful gestures, both in our wardrobe and in our actions, can elevate not just our day but the lives of those around us. Discover how embracing the little things can lead to more balanced, joyful living. Read more and learn how designing a life focused on small moments of kindness and detail can make a big impact!”

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Fall color Pallet
Fall color Pallet

Discover the hottest fall colors for 2024, including Golden Olive, Leopard Print, Deep Burgundy, and Earthy Brown, perfect for creating a balanced and stylish wardrobe. Learn how to incorporate these trending colors into your fall outfits while designing a life full of happiness and vibrancy. From cozy sweaters to statement accessories, find out how to embrace these shades and stand out this season. Elevate your fall style with a blend of trendy hues and timeless neutrals to create your own unique color palette.

Have a lil Faith
Have a lil Faith

Ever had a friend surprise you with the perfect gift, one that feels like it came straight from the heavens? That’s exactly what happened when I received a stunning cross necklace and ring from my friend’s jewelry brand, Vera Vara, right when I needed a reminder to have a little faith. Trust me, you won’t want to miss how this thoughtful gift turned into a heartfelt moment—and some accidental product photography!

Slingback September
Slingback September

Torn between summer sandals and fall boots? Slingback shoes are the chic solution to your September style dilemma—elegant, versatile, and totally on trend for fall 2024. Discover why slingbacks are the perfect transitional shoe and how you can rock them with everything from cozy sweaters to date night outfits!

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How to Win the Friend in Myself and Influence My Life
How to Win the Friend in Myself and Influence My Life

Are you treating yourself with the same kindness and respect you offer others? In today’s fast-paced world, we often focus on influencing those around us but forget the importance of building a strong, positive relationship with ourselves. Inspired by the principles of How to Win Friends and Influence People, this post explores actionable steps to become your own best friend and design a life filled with happiness and balance. Discover how self-compassion, mindful reflection, and positive self-talk can transform your inner world, helping you lead a more fulfilling and harmonious life. Ready to influence your life from the inside out? 

Stop Dropping the F Word
Stop Dropping the F Word

In today’s hyper-connected digital world, it’s easy to confuse likes and follows with true friendship. But not everyone deserves to be called a friend. Discover why real connection is about quality, not quantity, and learn how to build meaningful relationships that truly enrich your life. Based on the principles from Robin Sharma’s The Wealth Money Can’t Buy, this post dives deep into the art of friendship and community, and why your first friend should always be you. If you’re looking for deeper connections and authentic friendships, you need this.

Life is better with the colors of the 🌈
Life is better with the colors of the 🌈

June is pride month, the world is full of the colors of the rainbow 🌈 it would be boring if everything was black and white.

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Eating in Season: Why Autumn Foods Are Vital for Your Health and Wellness
Eating in Season: Why Autumn Foods Are Vital for Your Health and Wellness

Discover the vibrant flavors of fall by eating in season and nourishing your body with nature’s harvest. Autumn is the perfect time to enjoy nutrient-rich fruits, vegetables, grains, and meats that boost your health and immunity. Eating seasonally not only enhances your well-being but also connects you with the natural rhythms of the earth. Explore how you can turn seasonal ingredients into delicious, health-boosting meals that reflect the richness of the fall harvest.

Other than spinning my salad
Other than spinning my salad

Using a salad spinner to wash fruit.

What foods are in season in June?
What foods are in season in June?

What fruits and vegetables are in season in June?

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A curiosity notebook, I'm going to do this.

Becoming curious isn’t about being naturally gifted—it’s about seeing life as an endless puzzle worth exploring. Every moment holds a potential question, and every question is an invitation to a new adventure.

So, start small. Pick one thing today to be just a little more curious about. The world is waiting create a curiosity notebook.

Designing Your 2025: Embracing Soft Power
Designing Your 2025: Embracing Soft Power

“Discover how to design your best year yet in 2025 by embracing the transformative power of ‘soft power.’ Learn actionable steps to enhance your life through emotional intelligence, feminine elegance, and mindful living. Explore how being well-dressed, leaning into your feminine essence, and stepping into your unique power as a woman can guide you toward balance, happiness, and fulfillment in health, career, relationships, and beyond. Start designing a life aligned with your core values at Onyx and Milk.”

Designing Your Extraordinary Life
Designing Your Extraordinary Life

Planning is part of designing the life you want.

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For a different perspective
For a different perspective

Reading Neville Goddard’s complete works on audible. 

Taking over the world
Taking over the world

Review of the book by bestselling author Ryan North “How to take over the world”.

New Book in my bag
New Book in my bag
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6 Tips for Healthy Summer Feet
6 Tips for Healthy Summer Feet

6 tips for healthy summer feet.

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I thought I was dying.
I thought I was dying.

How being deficient in vitamin D and B 12 could affect your life. 

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View fullsize Setting up my #hotchocolate bar because that’s how you start the Christmas season. Little chocolate spoons, dehydrated marshmallows and seasonal mugs and a little light and the cutest brown Santa from @dollartree store because I’m obsesse
View fullsize As fall arrives, it’s the perfect time to “fall into place” and align our lives with the season’s natural rhythm of reflection and renewal. Just like the leaves turning golden, this is a chance to let go of what no longer serv
View fullsize I was given an assignment from God. He said offer yourself to one of your friends to be of service to them, that I may show you that every time you deny your talents and skills and doubt your ability you are doubting me. So I pushed thought the anxi
View fullsize I know sometimes it is hard to wake up to your purpose and every day we have responsibilities and those responsibilities wake us up, but imagine waking up to fulfill your purpose. If Your purpose is what is driving you to wake up every morning imagin
View fullsize Tinkering as usual with ideas that come to me and always happy that @michaelsstores is always there with the supplies to help my vision to completion. I made this leather lanyard for my son, he is off to college and I wanted him to have something to
View fullsize Today is a good day because you choose to have a good day. Everyday you can choose to have the day that want, you are in control of how you feel and the actions you choose to have. Have a God day.
View fullsize Taking a well needed beach vacation, sun, sand and time alone with my thoughts. The aim is recalibrate this great life and make it better with my intentionality and guidance from God. Keep design the life you want, it is your life. #sun #recalibrate
View fullsize This August I want to do the easy things well. I can do the hard things, but the easy things can be challenging. You take easy things for granted you don’t think it’s really important. However, however, it is extremely important. 1. Getti
View fullsize Summer salad for the win.